Marriage is both wonderful and challenging at the same time. Who
doesn’t want to be married to that perfect man we saw on a fiction
story? Your man is as perfect as you make him to be. Both partners are
to put in effort, hard work and time for a relationship to work. There
are, however, some common qualities that make a great husband.
Here are 10 signs you have a great husband:
1. He communicates with you.
He never takes the importance of communication lightly. He talks to
you, listens to what you have to say and really tries to understand
where you are coming from. He knows when to talk and when to not. He can
talk to you about anything and everything from his favorite sports
shows to your favorite reality tv.
2. He loves to spend time with you.
He loves being around you. It doesn’t matter what you do together, as
long as he gets to spend the time with you. He just genuinely enjoys
having you as a company. You can be staying home watching a silly
romantic movie with chips and peanuts together or going to a restaurant
you both love for a good dining experience together, as long as he is
doing it with you, he would be happy.
3. He makes you smile and laugh.
Who doesn’t love a man with a sense of humor? He surely knows how to
be silly and funny at the right times. He would crack a lame joke or do
the funniest facial expression that makes you laugh so hard that you had
a stomach pain. Seeing you smile makes him the happiest man alive.
4. He is supportive.
He stands by you through all your ups and downs. He’s always there to
back you up no matter the situations. He supports you in every pursue
you attempt, and believes in your abilities more than anyone ever did.
There will be times when you doubted yourself, but he always ensures you
with his love and support to build you back up, for you to keep moving
forward.
5. He is willing to teach you what he knows.
He doesn’t believe that man should always be the smartest or wisest
in a relationship. He is willing to shower you with the knowledge he has
accumulated throughout his life. He would be honored to share the
knowledges he has, for you to utilize for your own benefits.
6. He is loyal.
Let’s be real. Every man has the right to appreciate beautiful
things, and beautiful people. We love looking at good looking men too,
don’t we? However, a great husband is one who knows that no matter how
many good looking women they enjoy looking at, there is only one woman
who owns their heart. The woman he owns will always be the most
beautiful to him, inside and out, in his heart.
7. He acknowledges his mistakes.
He understands that he is only human, and he is prone to make
mistakes. He doesn’t deny when he makes mistakes, instead he admits to
his faults and are willing to mend them as best he can.
8. He protects and cares for you.
He always makes sure of your safety. He would call to check on you to
make sure you get to your destination safely. He does his best to
protect you from any harm. One of his top priority has been always to
make sure you are well taken care of, physically and emotionally.
9. He understands you.
He knows what make you tick. He understands you like no one ever
could. It isn’t hard to figure out your favorite color or ice cream
flavor, but it is very hard to find someone who truly understands you in
a deeper level. He gets you and knows what matters to you. He knows
what upsets you, and what makes you happy. He understands your values,
and he knows your purpose in life.
10. He doesn’t see you any less than himself.
He acknowledges your strengths and talents. He doesn’t think that he
is better than you in everything. He believes that you possess great
qualities that are unique to your own. He knows that you can achieve
great things in life and makes sure you know that too. He is proud to
call you his woman.
Amorie
Lim is the cofounder of Amorie Lim International, Certified
Professional Coach, communication adviser and trainer. She has been
working with businesses, individuals and families in achieving the
desired communication outcome to resolve conflicts in achieving personal
and professional goals. Amorie believes that better life begins with
better communication, and is passionate in working with people who seek
to improve their life in any circumstances by improving their
communication skills.
